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100 Cars for Good

March 11, 2012

Thanks, everyone, for sharing your car shopping and owning experiences with me. I love me a two-way conversation.

Now for something Toyota-ish and do-gooderish. And you know how much I love things that are do-gooderish (making up words as I go along here).

Starting March (updated! sorry, I got the date wrong) 14th, Toyota is giving away 100 cars to non-profit organizations with their 100 Cars for Good program.

Hey, here’s a tear-jerking little 2 minute video:

Anyone can nominate a non-profit, then Toyota brings in smart people to pare the list down to a manageable 500, after which the voting begins – you can select from 5 organizations on the Facebook page each day, and each day a car (or truck from the selection offered) is awarded. At the end of the process, 100 groups will have a car.

Please nominate early, because they only take a limited number (up to 5000) of applicants to keep the process from getting totally out of control. If you are stumped for any deserving organizations, any of my posts from late May through early July last year will help you out, because I featured 50 non-profits back then.

If you do nominate, please let me know. I’d love to hear about organizations you think are doing good work.

Disclosure: I am a member of the Toyota Women Influencers Network TWIN community through a program with Clever Girls Collective. I did not receive any compensation for writing this post or payment in exchange for participating. The opinions expressed herein are mine, and do not reflect the views of Toyota or any of its brands.

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March 10, 2012

Car Shopping – Heaven, or Hell?

March 6, 2012

I have purchased 2 new cars in the past few years in totally different ways. As part of my continuing coverage of car stuff for Toyota, I’d love to hear about how car shopping is for you. I know that most people – and especially women – hate it.

When I bought the BlueMobile, I did the worst thing possible: I fell in love with a particular car and just had to have it. Big mistake if you’re trying to save money.
Goldie in her car
Goldie in the BlueMobile

My problems were compounded by wanting a car (Honda Fit) that was in short supply in the United States, since it was brand new here. I got the exact car I wanted, but I paid full price.

When the BlueMobile got smashed last April (2011)…
Bye bye little car
Ow ow ow

…and I needed a new car, I was under pressure. I was driving my mom’s 1994 Lincoln Continental Land Yacht and I felt SO UNSAFE in that car. Part of it was a slight case of PTSD from having just been accordioned on the freeway. The other part was that, in safety years, 1994 was a century ago. A big slippery bench seat, no head restraints, one ancient airbag and a seatbelt that only worked about 70 percent of the time…I felt panicked every time I had to drive that thing.

Fortunately, I had the internet on my side. I did massive research on edmunds.com, cars.com and on car websites to narrow down the cars I wanted to look at to about five small hatchbacks.

The hatchback was for the dog, naturally. I had to have a car that worked for her. She runs my life. The small was for me. I feel some responsibility for trying to keep my carbon footprint smaller by driving a small car.

I wanted to look at, in no particular order:

  1. Honda Fit
  2. Kia Soul
  3. Toyota Matrix
  4. Mazda 3
  5. 2012 Ford Focus

I went out and test-drove the cars, which was kind of a bizarre experience. The salespeople were generally so low-key that I felt like they some of them weren’t even trying. They were the anti-high-pressure salespeople you always hear about. One guy at the Kia dealership did not say ONE WORD to me during the test drive. I hated the car (the Kia Soul), but even if I had loved it, I wouldn’t have bought a car from him.

I didn’t get to drive a Toyota Matrix because the local dealership didn’t have any. It was a month after the Japan earthquake and things were a little weird with the Japanese car supply (yes, I know many Toyotas are made in the US). The 2012 Ford Focus was not yet available, though I visited 3 dealerships at least 5 times trying to find it.

I drove another Honda Fit, of course, and thought it was a fine option. My favorite car was the Mazda 3, which was so sporty and fun to drive – but it was comparatively pricey and the gas mileage wasn’t great.

But in the end, the Hyundai Elantra Touring won. I hadn’t even considered it originally but a very competent salesman at the Hyundai dealership went out of his was to make sure to call me when they got one in. He figured out what car would suit me best after showing me everything on the lot. They didn’t have an Elantra Touring the day I was first there because they were in short supply, but they got 2 in about a week later, and he called me to come in for a test drive.
My new car. A responsible adult car.

I’m not super keen on how it looks, especially the color, which I haaaaate (silver cars are my least favorite). I think the style is pretty dull, though my BFF CC keeps telling me how gorgeous she thinks it is.

For the price – around $20,000 – it has great features (leather, sunroof, nice wheels, Sirius XM) and a 10-year powertrain warranty, which is ultimately what sold me.

I pre-arranged financing with my credit union and also joined Costco to take part in their buying program, which made me feel comfortable I was getting a good loan rate and a good price.

So for me, I felt like the internet was my best friend in car shopping. A good credit rating didn’t hurt, either. I am such a big dope that I could never walk in not knowing what I was doing and attempt to grapple with the salesperson/sales manager and hope to get what I wanted at a decent price.

After my experience test-driving all of those Toyotas the other day, I have a new fantasy – some kind of test-driving facility run as a co-op between all the car dealers without salespeople, but with all makes and models of cars to test, side-by-side, one after the other. No pressure, just a way to directly compare cars. Will someone please make that happen for me?

So tell me about your best or worst car shopping experience. I’d love to know.

Disclosure: I was selected for participation in the TWIN community through a program with Clever Girls Collective. I did not receive any compensation for writing this post, or payment in exchange for participating. The opinions expressed herein are mine, and do not reflect the views of the Toyota.

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Question and Answer Time with Suebob

March 4, 2012

Q. Who is asking these questions?
A. Suebob

Q. And who is answering them?
A. Suebob

Q. Why don’t you just write a real blog post?
A. Why don’t you get off my last nerve?

Raw Shelled Favas

Q. You said in your last post you had lost 31.5 pounds, correct?
A. Actually 31.6, but who is counting?

Q. Why haven’t you written more about your weight loss?
A. Because I am afraid of boring you all to death.

Q. How have you done it?
A. Weight Watchers. Lots and lots and lots of vegetables, some fruit, a few carbs, not a lot else.

Q. Is it hard?
A. For me, not really. I was determined. It’s like a switch flipped in my brain. There are some hard parts.

Q. Like what?
A. I love nothing more than to eat mindlessly. Just to mow through some snack while I’m reading or writing or watching a movie. I can’t do that anymore.

Q. Anything else?
A. Little things, but I can handle it.

Q. Has anything surprised you about this process?
A. How much food I ate before. It was insane, now that I have learned more about how much food I actually need. Now I see people mindlessly eating a muffin the size of a softball and my eyes bug out. I used to eat like that ALL the time.

Q. Are you going to become an annoying diet snob?
A. I hold myself back because I used to hate diet advice and it always made me act worse when someone tried to tell me anything about food. But I must say it is interesting to take a good hard look at our sick food culture and realize how much of what we eat is really not, in fact, food. But I just have to shut up because I don’t want to be That Annoying Food Person.

Q. Are you still fat?
A. Yes. I still need to lose 34 pounds to even be in the healthy range for my height.

Q. Can you do that?
A. We will see. I hope so.

Q. Will you keep it off?
A. I sure hope so. I know odds are against me and I will need to be eternally vigilant and never, ever go back to the way I ate before.

Q. Is that depressing?
A. It would be more depressing if I didn’t feel so much better than I did before. Feeling better is motivating and that is what keeps me moving forward.

Q. What else is going on?
A. I’m applying to grad school. Trying to decide if I can afford it. Wish me luck.

Thanks for listening me talk to myself!

I went to Camp Toyota and all I got was a really good time and a lot of useful information

March 2, 2012

Suebob landcruiser
A Landcruiser older than I am in the Toyota Automotive Museum. And me, 31.6 lbs lighter than I was just 14 weeks ago.

I went to Camp Toyota, but I did not knit seatbelts or sing camp songs, unless you count Lady Gaga’s “On the Edge” as I was scaring my fellow bloggers by attempting to manuver a giant Toyota Sequoia around corners (hint: you kind of have to wait for the back end to come around the corner before gassing it too hard).

There were about 15 of us women from the Clever Girls Collective who came to Southern California to do a brand thing with Toyota. Not being a parent blogger, I rarely get invited to Brand Things, so I think it was cool of them to include me, even thought I don’t – *gasp* – have children.

All of us bloggers got to know each other over some great food and wine when we arrived in Hermosa Beach Wednesday night, then went to work early Thursday morning learning All Things Toyota. No, not really all things. There are too many things to know – I’m lucky if I can keep their cars straight at this point, because, as it turns out, they make a car for pretty much every different type of person. They’re smart that way.

But they gave it their best shot, explaining the product design lifecycle, their philosophy, their philanthropic efforts, their commitment to conservation and the environment, and they also did something kind of remarkable – they listened to us talk about cars, car shopping, and what we thought. Well played, Toyota people. Well played.

At lunchtime, we spent two hours driving as many cars as we could. They lined up a bunch of brand new cars, left the keys in the cup holders, and told us to drive as many or as few as we liked, with or without passengers and with or without product experts to answer our questions. OK, YOU EVIL CONTROLLING SLAVE-MASTERS.

I would have driven even more cars, but I got stuck in traffic. Well, first I got lost on the Toyota campus, THEN I got stuck in traffic with a broken-down tractor-trailer rig blocking four lanes of traffic.

I sat there and sat there and sat there in my brand-new RAV4, thinking “OMG, they’re going to think I stole their car!” I imagined a posse of white-faced executives running down the street, high-heels and ties a-flapping, yelling “That blogger woman stole our car!!!”

Eventually I got back, and in 2 short hours I managed to drive:

  • RAV4, which is a smallish SUV
  • Scion IQ, the tiny four-seater that has all the techy stuff so you can sync your smart phone to your car. No, I’m not joking.
  • Camry LXE and SE – the practical but kinda sporty family sedans
  • Prius V and C – the Prius V is a hatchback. You KNOW how I love hatchbacks, right? And the C is cute as a button, especially in the Habanero color.
  • Highlander Hybrid – a mid-sized SUV that stole my car-loving heart
  • Sequoia – it’s big enough for the Duggars, and way comfortable

It was cool to drive cars side-by-side and see exactly what they were like. I thought I’d LOVE the RAV4, but I don’t think I’d buy one after driving it. I’d save my pennies for the Highlander, which I wanted to marry. The Scion IQ was cute as hell, but it felt a little young for me. OK, a lot young. And even though I like to pretend I’m cool and edgy, I settled into the classic family sedan, the Camry LXE, like I was born to it.

It was fun to be at Toyota. It made me nostalgic for work in a business that makes a product, because the people there were so dang proud. I miss that, working in a service industry.

Ok, more about this whole adventure later. I’m wiped out!

Disclosure: I was selected for participation in the TWIN community through a program with Clever Girls Collective. I did not receive any compensation for writing this post, or payment in exchange for participating. The opinions expressed herein are mine, and do not reflect the views of the Toyota.

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You Will All Be Driving Toyotas By the Time I’m Done With You

February 22, 2012

Have you been wondering about the TWIN badge over there in my sidebar? No? Well, hang on, because I’m going to tell you about it anyway.

My friends at Clever Girls Collective got me a gig blogging for Toyota. So far an unpaid gig (thus the disclosure at the bottom of the post) but I live in hope that one of these days, if I write enough posts, a car carrier will pull up in front of my house and drop off a shiny new 4-Runner.

Until then, I get to do fun stuff like go to Toyota camp, where I will learn to knit seat belts and get to carve tires out of solid blocks of rubber. We’re also going to learn those great old campfire songs like “The RAVs go Marching Two By Two,” and “Does Your Yaris Hang Low?” I’m hoping stunt driving will be on the schedule, because I really want a merit badge!

(No, really, I have no idea what we will be doing at Camp Toyota. And I’m fairly sure their attorneys would tell you that no Toyotas will be sold with hand-knitted seat belts. Can you tell I work with an expert legal staff every day? Bless their detail-oriented little hearts).

I’ll be writing a few posts over the next month or so and just wanted to give you the scoop on what I was up to. As always, I’ll be honest and frank and transparent, even though I hate that word because it makes me think of anatomy models labeled “THE VISIBLE MAN.”

Stay tuned for more valuable information from The Greatest Automotive Manufacturer on Earth, whose cars you really should be driving if you know what’s good for you and if you want to be my friend. No, honestly, this should be fun. And I’ll take you for a drive in my RAV4 when it arrives.

Disclosure: I was selected for participation in the TWIN community through a program with Clever Girls Collective. I did not receive any compensation for writing this post, or payment in exchange for participating. The opinions expressed herein are mine, and do not reflect the views of the Toyota.

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Thank You For Your Assistance

February 20, 2012

Buddha and meditator

Yesterday, at the supermarket, I ran into a real jerk. Or I should say, he almost ran into me and would have if I hadn’t jumped out of the way of his cart as I yelped, ever my mother’s daughter “Excuse me!”

He didn’t care if I was there. He was going to push his damned cart down the damned aisle, and if another human’s body got in his way, it was their own damned fault.

When I had most of my groceries unloaded onto the belt, no one was yet behind me in line, so I paused to try to unpeel one of those tiny demonic “SAVE $1.00 NOW” coupons plastered to the front of a product.

Suddenly I heard groceries slamming onto the belt as he muttered to himself. The same jerk. And now he was mad I was impeding his grocery-unloading process.

“Oh, excuse me!” I said again, scrambling to move myself and my groceries out of the way. My cart was behind me, and he actually shoved it toward me. “PARDON ME!” I yelled, this time, thinking perhaps he was just too deaf to hear me the first time.

I was mad by then but tried to take the tack of grinning madly, because I often find the the best way to drive jerks crazy is to act like you think their stupid jerk schtick is a joke.

But then it became a joke. I really started smiling, remembering that I was blessed that I had the ability to change my attitude and not act like this guy. I vowed right then and there to make things different for the rest of the day.

And guess what? Things switched immediately. Shireen, the cashier, was busy getting yelled at by some guy who didn’t like his Starbucks order. I waited patiently and gave her a sympathetic smile and said “Bad coffee?” and she spilled her guts to me about how she’s the lead and has to do everything, even manage the Starbucks workers and complaints, while she checks groceries.

I looked her in the eyes and said “We always have to do more with less. I want to have a day where we do more with more.” and she looked deep into my eyes and said “You’re a smart woman” and we had a moment of appreciating each other, me for her being such a hard worker and her for me being understanding, and then we told each other to have a good day.

The rest of the day was like that, too. Everywhere I went, everyone I met, I made sure to look in the eyes and thank and laugh with a little if I had the chance. I ended up talking brussels sprouts with a farmer in Ojai and hospital treatment with a little lady in Simi Valley and concerts with Ish.

So, thanks, Mr. Jerky Man. You and your pushy shopping cart pushed me into a better day. I hope getting 6 inches further ahead in line by shoving my cart made that happen for you, too. Really.

February Photo Challenge Day 16: Something New

February 16, 2012

My feet are my Achilles’ heel. I don’t have structural problems or hammer toes, but the skin on my feet is so delicate that I can get blisters just walking around the house in shoes I have had forever. It’s the craziest thing.

Thank goodness for the internet. Someone suggested I go to a running store and get this Anti-Chafe stuff. No more blisters! It’s like magic.

Travels: Coffee in My Own Town and Far Away

February 15, 2012

I love finding interesting stuff in my own town. Especially when “interesting stuff” equals good food and drink. The lovely Allison Costa of Ventura Food Tours helped me find one of those places one Saturday morning.

Allison organizes group trips around Ventura County to special food spots – restaurants, manufacturers, growers, bakeries – anyone who make things worth tasting.

I met up with her and about a dozen other coffee lovers one Saturday morning at Beacon Coffee to learn from master roaster John Wheir.
Coffee tour
That’s John in the blue shirt.

He led us through the process of “Cupping,” which is far more than simply tasting. It is the way coffee buyers test coffee beans before they make their purchase.

A precise amount of ground coffee is mixed with a precise amount of water (at, guess what – a precise temperature) and steeped for a precise amount of time.

At the perfect moment, you lean over with and put your nose right above the cup. The coffee grounds have formed a cap on top of the water in the cup.

Working with speed and conviction, you push the cap away from you with the back of a large spoon just as you take a big, slurpy inhale of the steam. IF you do this right – and chances are you won’t the first time – you get a big whiff of all the magic, complex odors contained in those roasted beans.
John from Beacon Coffee cupping some Costa Rican peaberry

I didn’t do it right – most of us didn’t, being too shy to take a big enough, loud enough sniff – but the guy across from me did, and apparently it was worth doing. He began happily crowing “I got it! I got it!”

After the sniff, you taste the coffee at different time intervals. I can’t overstate how amazing this was. For the first taste, the coffee was far too bright and acid for my taste, which is something I had experienced before with other Costa Rican coffees (which this was).

But then…a few minutes later, the coffee’s flavor had mellowed and more richer, caramel flavors had come out. A few minutes later and the coffee was unrecognizable as the coffee I had first tasted – and it was really, really good.

John knows his coffee. He has roasted for some of the biggest names in the business, including Whole Foods. He and his wife travel to coffee-growing regions to select beans straight from growers. He was leaving for Costa Rica soon after our tour.

I loved finding out about Beacon Coffee and getting a chance to reconnect with Allison, whom I had met at an event. I’m also happy to be able to buy coffee from a small, local business that has an appreciation for and a dedication to quality. You should come over. I have some totally good coffee for you to try.

Remind me to tell you sometime about my trip to a coffee farm in Costa Rica. Here are a couple photos to tide you over:
Coffee plants and Melvin
Melvin, our tour guide, explains how coffee grows.

Coffee warehouse
Coffee storage
Melvin turning coffee beans in the sun
Coffee drying in the sun
This is not a sponsored post. I paid for my own tour, and enjoyed it.

February Photo Challenge Day 15: Phone

February 15, 2012

Happy Anniversary to my sister PK and her husband, David, one of the greatest couples I know. Was it 36 years ago that you got married? I remember my sis being so nervous that she was white as a sheet, white as her beautiful homemade satin dress. I was maid of honor in a green polyester dress, which for some reason made sense in the 1970s. Many more happy years, kids.

Phone sign

Here are the photo prompts:
February Photo challenge, Photo a Day #febphotoaday